1. Into the Fray: Theoretical Foundation and Overview 2. The Basics: Clinical Goals and Tasks 3. Relationship Obstacle 1: Poor Communication Skills 4. Relationship Obstacles 2 and 3: Emotional Wounds and Differing Visions 5. Beginnings: Structure and Tasks 6. Beginnings in Action 7. Middle Stages 8. Termination 9. The Developmental Landscape 10. Treatment Maps for Common Couple Problems: Affairs, Money Issues, and Violent and Volatile Couples 11. Treatment Maps for Common Couple Problems: Sexual Issues, "Stale" Relationships, and Extended Family Issues 12. Treatment Maps for Common Child-Related Problems 13. One Helping Two, Two Helping One: Working with Individuals in Relationships 14. Life in the Details: The Nuts and Bolts of Couple Therapy Appendix A. Explanation of Emotional Wounds Appendix B. Instructions for a First-Aid Plan for Violent Couples Appendix C. Instructions for Meditation Appendix D. Instructions for the Emotional Freedom Technique Appendix E. Instructions for Using Mindfulness to Reduce Anxiety References Index