Tracy Balzer is a speaker, spiritual director, retreat leader, and an oblate at Subiaco Abbey. She is the author of Thin Places, A Listening Life, and Permission to Ponder, The founder and leader of Sea & Stone Journeys, she organizes spiritual pilgrimages to the British Isles. Tracy also hosts the podcast A Listening Life, where she guides listeners through the prayerful practice of lectio divina. Tracy lives in Siloam Springs, Arkansas where she serves as director of Christian formation at John Brown University.
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Introduction: A skilled spiritual director asks the directee questions that will help them listen for the voice of God in their life. Those questions are all rooted in three that are essential: Who is God? Who am I? What am I to do with my life? WHO IS GOD? Columba's Bay: What are you searching for? Jesus tells his followers that "the kingdom of heaven is like a merchant looking for fine pearls" (Matthew 13:45). What is the deepest longing of our hearts that can only be satisfied in something "other," in something transcendent and of eternal value? St Martin's Cross: Who is Jesus? One of the great curiosities of the Gospels is that Jesus' own followers seem to have a hard time getting a grip on who Jesus really is. And Jesus asks them, point blank: Who do you say I am? He asks us the same question. Dun I: What do you see? The contemplative tradition of Christianity has a singular objective: to teach us to pay attention. This chapter reflects on the what it means to pay attention, and to do it from a different vantage point. WHO ARE YOU? Hostel: What's your story? One of the gifts of spiritual direction is that it gives space for honest engagement with what is true about ourselves -- where we've come from, what has shaped us, where have we seen the hand of God at work. Pilgrims: What are the spiritual knots that need untying? In a spiritual direction relationship, this question emerges quickly. For often, the presence of a "spiritual knot" is what brought the directee in the first place. Where are the places in life when what I Sacred places provide space for the reflection that our typical, frantic lives do not. Space where, if we listen, we will hear the voice of God. Staffa: What brings you delight? "Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?" Matthew 6:26-27 This is a serious challenge in our fear-filled world. WHAT ARE YOU TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE? White Strand: What are you afraid of? This chapter seeks not only to help the reader be honest about their own fears, but to also provide a word of encouragement through a profoundly instructive experience on Iona's White Strand of the Martyr's. The Bothy: Where do you want to live? This chapter explores the concept of "home" in depth, calling us to affirm that God himself is our truest home. Val's Farm: What gift can you give to the world? What is my role in the world? What was I created for? What is my purpose? These are questions that a good spiritual director will help to process. And while answers to the questions are certainly helpful, it's the processing that is perhaps most formative.

