Introduction I. How Do We Stop Hurting? 1. What's Happening to Us? 2. How Do We Get Through the Day? 3. How Do We Talk with Each Other? 4. How Do We Deal with Others? 5. How Do We Care for Ourselves? II. How Did This Happen? 6. Why Stir Everything Up? 7. Was My Marriage to Blame? 8. Was It the World Around Us? 9. How Could My Partner Have Done This? 10. What Was My Role? 11. How Do I Make Sense of It All? III. Can This Marriage Be Saved? 12. How Do I Get Past the Hurt? 13. Can This Marriage Be Saved? 14. What Lies Ahead? Additional Resources