The Non-Monogamy Journal

Even when you've read a lot about relationships, it's easy to avoid really considering potential challenges until you're confronted with them.The Non-Monogamy Workbook provides a comprehensive list of the most common situations that crop up in non-monogamous life, including realistic scenarios to help readers to tune into what they'll feel if - or when - they happen to them. Rather than providing any kind of easy answers, Lola Phoenix guides readers through helpful sets of questions to enable them to create their own route-maps for how to navigate relationship agreements, conflicts, boundaries, tough feelings, community tensions, and more. An invaluable relationship resource. -- Meg-John Barker, Author of Rewriting the Rules and How To Understand Your Relationships. The Non-Monogamy Journal is a clarifying and empowering journal for readers navigating the nuanced waters of non-monogamy. By presenting real-life scenarios and challenges, Lola empowers us to clarify our needs; honor where we might need boundaries; and envision how to communicate with our partners in a grounded way. It's incredibly practical, helping us devise concrete road maps for navigating some of non-monogamy's most difficult and rewarding terrains. The Non-Monogamy Journal a must-read for anyone wishing to embrace non-monogamy with integrity, clarity, and fierce self-possession. -- Hailey Magee, author of STOP People Pleasing and Find Your Power I want to nominate Lola Phoenix to host a polyamory-themed TV game show! They present every messy, complicated poly drama imaginable, and although it will make you squirm, it really helps you think through solutions. Check it out!" -- Kathy Labriola, author of The Polyamory Break-up Book The Non-Monogamy Journal is so practical and helpful. For anyone who feels lost or unsure about where to even start, these prompts and questions are really valuable. -- Genevieve King, @chillpolyamory